I won't act coy... its a waste of time....

It's pointless and a waste of time to feign shyness and giggle and flirt. I believe in speaking your mind. If I were a guy, I'd find woman who speaks their mind extremely attractive. I won't hesitate to ask a guy out if he catches my fancy, even on our first meeting... just simply ask" wanna grab a coffee?" the guy would usually respond positively. But you got to be smart enough to know whats the situation is.Make a move only after you have sized the situation. Why try to catch someone attention if he doesn't even notice you alive? Whenever i approach guys, i always put it casual and friendly. If you are too aggressive or slutty, most man will probably be put off. Nowadays singaporean are more open minded, but i think average man would still want girl who are more demure.